Generic Therapy isn't Enough
When Betrayal Shatters Your World
You don't have to navigate this alone. Talk to a betrayal trauma specialist today.
You found the evidence...
The messages. The receipt. The confession you never wanted to hear.
And in a single moment, everything changed.
Now you can't sleep. You replay every conversation. You swing between rage, panic, numbness, and desperate hope — and you don't feel like yourself anymore.
Instead of answers, you have more questions. Instead of safety, you have hypervigilance. And just when you think you're okay, something triggers you and you're right back at square one.
You are not crazy. You are not weak. You are not overreacting.
You’ve experienced betrayal. And betrayal trauma requires specialized care.
We understand how you feel. And we can help.
We are a team of specialized betrayal trauma therapists, and for more than ten years our practice has focused exclusively on infidelity and betrayal trauma.
We don't take sides. We take betrayal care seriously.
We begin by stabilizing and supporting the betrayed partner first. From there, we assess what is safe, healthy, and needed before anything else is addressed. If the goal is to rebuild, we will walk you through that. If moving on is the healthiest path, we will support you through that too. We don't take sides. We do what is best for you.
Expert Licensed Care Available:
8 AM – 8 PM (PST)
Monday - Saturday
10,140+
Hours of Client Care
15
Evidence-Based Approaches
14+
Insurance Plans Accepted
Most therapists treat infidelity like a relationship problem. It's not.
Infidelity is a trauma event.
When trust collapses, your brain goes into survival mode, your body stays on high alert, and your sense of reality fractures. If therapy moves too quickly into communication skills or understanding both sides, the betrayed partner is often left feeling unseen, unprotected, and pressured to reconcile before they're ready.
We understand what most therapists miss...
The shock, the obsessive questioning, the hypervigilance, the sexual triggers, the fear of making the wrong decision, and the power imbalance that sets in the moment of discovery. We don't start with the relationship. We start with you. This isn't generic marriage counseling. This is structured, strategic recovery built around the specific wounds that betrayal leaves behind.
Privacy Policy
Our Commitment to Your Privacy
At Betrayal Care, your privacy matters deeply to us. We understand that reaching out about something as personal as betrayal trauma takes courage, and we want you to feel safe from the very first interaction. This policy explains what information we collect, how we use it, and how we protect it.
Who This Policy Applies To
This policy applies to anyone who visits betrayalcare.com, submits an inquiry through our contact form, or communicates with us by email or phone prior to booking.
What Information We Collect
When you reach out to us through this website, you may choose to provide your name, email address, and/or phone number. You are not required to use your real name at this stage. We only collect what you choose to share with us.
We do not collect health information, payment information, or insurance details through this website.
Booking and Clinical Records
If you choose to book an appointment, you will be directed to Jane App, a secure, Canadian-based electronic health record platform. Any personal, health, or insurance information you provide during booking is collected and stored directly by Jane App and is governed by their privacy policy. We encourage you to review it at janeapp.com.
Betrayal Care does not store your clinical records on this website.
How We Use Your Information
The contact information you provide through this website is used to respond to your inquiry and help connect you with the right therapist. We will reach out by email or phone, depending on what you provide.
With your consent, we may also use your contact information to send you newsletters, updates, or other marketing communications from Betrayal Care. You will always be given a clear opportunity to opt in and opt out at any time.
We use secure third party communication platforms to manage emails and text messages. Your contact information may be stored within these platforms for the purpose of communicating with you. We do not sell, rent, or share your information with any other third parties.
Disclosure
Betrayal Care will not disclose your personal information to third parties except where we are required by law to do so. We may also disclose your information if you are found to be in violation of our Terms of Service.
Security
To protect your personal information, Betrayal Care takes reasonable precautions and follows industry best practices to ensure your information is not inappropriately lost, misused, accessed, disclosed, altered, or destroyed. While no method of transmission or storage is completely secure, we are committed to protecting your information to the best of our ability.
Age of Consent
By using this website, you confirm that you are at least the age of majority in your province of residence. betrayalcare.com is not intended for use by minors.
Data Collection and Advertising Technologies
Betrayal Care may use third party technologies to help us understand how visitors use our site, measure traffic, and analyze the performance of our content. Some of these partners may collect information about your activity on our site across devices and browsers.
You have the right to opt out of interest-based data collection through the following platforms:
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Your Consent
By submitting your contact information through our website, you consent to being contacted by Betrayal Care in response to your inquiry. Where we send marketing or promotional communications, we will always ask for your separate, explicit consent and provide a clear way to opt out at any time.
You may withdraw your consent at any time by unsubscribing from our emails or by replying STOP to any text message.
Provinces We Serve
Betrayal Care currently serves clients across multiple Canadian provinces. As our practice grows, this may expand to additional regions. To see which provinces our therapists are currently registered in, please visit our therapist profiles on this website. Our privacy practices are designed to comply with Canada's Personal Information Protection and Electronic Documents Act (PIPEDA) as well as applicable provincial privacy legislation.
Your Rights
You have the right to request access to the personal information we hold about you, ask us to correct any inaccurate information, and withdraw your consent to future communications at any time. To make a request, please contact us at the email listed on this website.
If Betrayal Care is ever acquired or merged with another organization, your information may be transferred to the new operators, and you will be notified of any material changes to how your information is handled.
Changes to This Policy
We may update this privacy policy from time to time to reflect improvements in best practices, changes in technology, or updates to applicable legislation. We encourage you to review this page periodically to stay informed about how we are protecting your information. Changes will be posted on this page with an updated date, and your continued use of betrayalcare.com following any changes constitutes your acceptance of the revised policy. If we make material changes, we will notify you where required by law.
Contact Us
If you have any questions about this privacy policy or how your information is handled, please reach out to us at [email protected].
Please note: This privacy policy covers information collected through betrayalcare.com only. For information about how your clinical data is handled once you begin therapy, please refer to the informed consent documentation provided at the time of booking.
Last updated: March 2026
Meet Your Therapists.
100% Focused on Betrayal Care.
Serving clients in British Columbia, Alberta, and Ontario.
Insurance and Private Pay accepted.
Elliott Kemmet
Individuals & Couples
Registered in: Alberta, Ontario
Tolulade Folarin
Individuals & Couples
Registered in: Alberta
Rita Onwunali
Individuals & Couples
Registered in: British Columbia, Alberta, Ontario
We Handle the Complexity. You Focus on Healing.
Never wonder what your
next step should be.
Our specialized betrayal trauma therapists bring over a decade of focused clinical expertise to every session, so you can stabilize, heal, and move forward with clarity.
Every session meets you where you are and helps you take one step further than where you started.
Immediate stabilization tools you can use between sessions to manage triggers, sleep, and overwhelm.
A clear understanding of what is happening in your nervous system and why you feel the way you do.
Real progress toward becoming a stronger, more grounded version of yourself. And if repairing the relationship is a goal, we'll help you navigate that too.
Your Healing Starts Here.
Research shows that the first step toward healing from betrayal trauma is often the hardest, but it does not have to be.
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A quick 15-minute consultation to match you with the right specialist for your situation.
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Connect virtually with a betrayal trauma specialist, on your schedule.
Start Feeling Like Yourself Again
Get the specialized, personalized support your mind and body need to heal, at a pace that is right for you
Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions. Honest answers.
What is betrayal trauma and how do I know if I have it?
Betrayal trauma occurs when someone you deeply trusted violates that trust, often through infidelity or deception. It can show up as anxiety, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, difficulty sleeping, emotional numbness, or feeling like you can't stop replaying what happened.
If any of this sounds familiar, you are not overreacting. What you are experiencing is a real, recognized response to a significant wound.
Do I have to talk about all the details of what happened?
No, and you will never be pushed to share more than you are ready to. Healing does not require you to relive every detail of what happened.
Our approach is guided by your pace and your comfort, and many of the therapeutic methods we use, including EMDR and mindfulness-based approaches, are specifically designed to help you process trauma without having to narrate it in full. You are always in control of what you share and when.
Is betrayal trauma therapy right for me?
This work is for anyone who has experienced the pain of betrayal, whether that is infidelity, emotional affairs, deception, or a breach of trust in a committed relationship.
It is for people who feel like their world has been turned upside down and are ready to start making sense of it, even if they are not sure where to begin.
This may not be the right fit if you are not yet ready to explore your own healing independent of your partner's choices.
If you are unsure, the free 15-minute call is the perfect place to start.
Can therapy help even if my partner isn't willing to come?
Absolutely. Your healing is not dependent on your partner's participation.
Individual therapy gives you the space to process what happened, understand your responses, and rebuild your sense of safety and self, entirely on your own terms.
How is a betrayal trauma specialist different from a regular therapist?
A betrayal trauma specialist has specific training in the unique ways betrayal affects the mind and body.
Rather than general talk therapy, we use targeted approaches like EMDR, Gottman Method, and DBT that are proven to address trauma at its root.
Does insurance cover betrayal trauma therapy?
Depending on your insurance plan, therapy can be covered up to 100%. We accept 14 insurance providers, and we also offer a cash pay option for those who prefer it.
We are happy to help you figure out what works best for you before you commit to anything.
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